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A style of leadership for me

When you share an unfinished product, you give people a chance to engage with you, that is shared enrollment.

Prasad Narravula

On this day I learned a lesson on altMBA about a style of leadership that worked really well for me.

We were discussing about which idea to pick between two options and while the subject was common, everyone had different definitions and details in their minds.

When I shared the unfinished/half baked work I was doing, everyone could look at one thing and develop from there.

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Soft skills are real

The real (or soft) skills feel as concrete as the hard skills.

You can sense how you are changing because of them, the same way you can see clearly how you have made progress on that design, exercising, or driving skill.

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Adding value by asking questions

There are no consequences here for speaking up, the consequence would be staying quiet and NOT speaking up, not stepping up even if you believe you are not qualified.

I have been telling myself that I would be doing my team a disservice if I did not share my opinions or ask ‘stupid questions’.

I know I am adding value to my team when they explain their thinking.

Teaching is a great way to learn.

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Missing action

In the midst of some anxiety and many thoughts, there is a lack of action to put the planned ideas and ramblings into motion.

Which action is missing?

Michael Jordan - Winning has a price

Winning has a price, and leadership has a price. So I pulled people along when they didn’t want to be pulled. I challenged people when they didn’t want to be challenged.

And I earned that right because teammates came after me. They didn’t endure all the things that I endured.

Once you joined the team, you lived at a certain standard that I played the game, and I wasn’t going to take anything less. Now if that means I had to go in there and get in your ass a little bit, then I did that. …you ask all my teammates, “The one thing about Michael Jordan, he never asked me to do something that he didn’t fucking do.”

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Seth Godin - Bored

Bored means that you’re paying attention (no one is bored when they’re asleep.)

Being challenged at work is a privilege. It means that you have a chance, on someone else’s nickel, to grow. It means you can choose to matter.

I’m glad you’re feeling bored, and now we’re excited to see what you’re going to go do about it.

Seth Godin

https://seths.blog/2020/04/thoughts-on-im-bored/

Dan Martell - Time constrain your work sessions

That’s it. Most of the time, we don’t fail to achieve our goals because of lack of knowledge and how-to, it’s because we haven’t associated the right level of motivation to the outcome.

It’s a powerful story to help remind you that anything is possible when our backs are against the wall.

Crating time constraint work sessions either personally enforced, or by not bringing your power cable on a work session will have a huge impact on your output. It also gets you into flow a lot faster.

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Michael Lopp - Stables and volatiles

Stables - appreciate direction, happy to work with a plan - they appreciate it. Order is good. dot the i’s and cross the t’s. Play nice with others and are carefully work to mitigate failure make good & predictable decisions.

Volatiles - define strategy rather than follow it; failure is not interesting to them. Risk gives a thrill. Code volume over quality. Reliable when it’s in their best interest. Tell them what to do and they’ll say ‘fuck you’. Allow them to choose by proposing you have a hard problem and ask if they can help or give you their advice and they’ll jump right in (a bit like a 5 year old!)

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Seth Godin - Pick yourself

Are you satisfied creatively? Not even close. That’s a very dangerous place to be and it would truly depress me if that happened and I would get very scared as well. I think if your goal is for everything to be okay, that’s a mistake. To achieve that goal, the only obstacle you’d have to face tomorrow is to eliminate all risk so that everything would be okay. I’ve made the decision that I’m never trying to make everything okay. I’m trying for there to be more loose ends, not fewer loose ends.

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